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“People don't find it very sympathetic or endearing, a woman who puts herself first.”


I love that precious feeling of being excited to read a book. There are some novels I was on the fence about, things that seemed interesting but took a while to get into, or (admittedly) complete cover buys where I hated almost every second of reading the book, but I couldn't rationalize spending money and then not reading it. Then there are those that grip you so tightly you just have to keep reading.

"The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo" was the second type. (Not that I dislike the cover - just sayin'.) I first heard of this book on Instagram - one of the book bloggers I'm following there posted a picture and the title was so intriguing I had to find out more about it. The summary was fabulous, as were the reviews, so of course I had to get my hands on it. And, girl, was that a good decision.

“That's my tragedy. That I used my body when it was all I had, and then I kept using it even when I had other options.”

Monique, like just about everyone, knows who Evelyn Hugo is. She just never thought she'd get to meet her. A journalist in her thirties who has just separated from her husband, and whose career has not exactly panned out as she had planned, Monique works for Vivant magazine. The job may sound glamorous but she is not doing what she wants and often feels she is underutilized. 

Evelyn Hugo, a Hollywood icon, is donating some of her most famous dresses to be sold in an auction that will raise money for breast cancer research. Her daughter had died of the disease and this is her way of honoring her and supporting other people who were diagnosed with it. The blond starlet was a sex symbol in the 50s, 60s and 70s and, despite being an accomplished actress with an Oscar win to her name, many people remember her for her numerous marriages. In order to promote the auction she has agreed to an interview with Vivant.

“When you're given an opportunity to change your life, be ready to do whatever it takes to make it happen. The world doesn't give things, you take things.”

Now, Monique is not a senior writer in Vivant, so when Evelyn requests her for the interview, she is all too ready to prove her worth. Her boss is extremely skeptical, but has to consent to Evelyn's wishes if she wants the exclusive story. So, Monique goes into this hoping to find out just something of what lurks beneath the surface, to write about something more than the origin and the meaning of the dresses. What she doesn't expect is the offer that comes from Evelyn - to write not an article, but a book about her life, an authorized tell-all biography that would finally reveal the truth - the good and the bad, the pretty and the ugly. Along the way, while Evelyn reveals shocking stories from her life and career, she also helps Monique discover things about herself.

I found this book incredibly readable. It covers a lot of time and does have perspective shifts. We get the real time conversations Monique has with her editor, with her mother and Evelyn. But Evelyn's stories are told in the first person point of view and we get to experience the life of a Hollywood bombshell firsthand. 

“Do yourself a favor and learn how to grab life by the balls, dear. Don't be so tied up trying to do the right thing when the smart thing is so painfully clear.”

Another thing that completely won me over is the characterization. The female characters are strong and have depth. Monique is a smart woman who is stuck in a rut, but finds courage to go out there, to put her livelihood in danger in order to make something greater. Evelyn is a character the likes of which I haven't yet seen. She is a beautiful woman who is aware of her beauty, who uses it in fact, but is not an airhead. She is a smart, calculating woman whose strength is immense, even though not apparent from her appearance.

The seven husbands from the title refer to Evelyn's seven marriages, all of them failed. There is a section of the book for each of these men, and they each have a moniker eg. "Poor Ernie Diaz", "Goddamn Don Adler", "Clever Rex North" etc., in regard to what they meant to Evelyn herself. She has loved some of these men, others were there to create a deflection from other things going on in her life, but all of them were a part of her life and all of them left a mark and helped shape her into a woman who spins her own narrative, who doesn't feel remorse and who knows that her place is at the top. 

“You wonder what it must be like to be a man, to be so confident that the final say is yours.”

There is a spin in the end that I won't reveal, because the feeling of finding it out for yourself is not something I'd take away from anyone. The title is a play on that final act and I absolutely loved all of it. In the end this is one of the takeaways from Evelyn herself: “They are just husbands. I am Evelyn Hugo.”
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“The wonderful thing about books was that they were films that played inside your head.” 


To be perfectly honest, this book was a complete cover buy. I read the synopsis at the end, of course,  but I was a bit on the fence about it. Still, the gorgeous cover had me reaching for it. I had to take it home and, thankfully, did not regret it.

This book follows two story lines that intersect at some point. There is love and heartbreak and learning how to live and move on. How to give yourself and other people a chance. 

“If you never get sadness, how do you know what happy is like?”

Laura works as a housekeeper for Anthony. He is a recluse and a loner and she is not allowed to go into his office. But when he dies, he leaves all of his possessions to her, with one request. What Laura never knew was that Anthony kept all the lost things he has ever found, with a detailed account of when and where he has found them. A long time ago he lost a precious keepsake and in order to right that mistake, he set himself a mission to return others' lost items to them. Now that he is gone, Laura is to finish his mission.

Reeling from a divorce and buckling under this new responsibility, Laura is understandably overwhelmed. But with the help of Anthony's gardener Freddy and Sunshine, the neighbors' quirky daughter, she starts her mission and in the process changes lives - lives of the people who are reunited with their lost possessions, lives of herself and Freddy and Sunshine, and even in s way, Anthony's life.

“A hush is a dangerous thing. Silence is solid and dependable, but a hush is expectant, like a pregnant pause; it invites mischief, like a loose thread begging to be pulled.”

The other story follows Eunice and Bomber, and the story starts the same day as Anthony's quest. Theirs is a story of heartbreak, friendship, companionship and love - quiet, supportive love - and ultimately a story of tragic loss. I will not deny having cried over certain parts of their story.

There are also short stories about the lost objects that appear to be written by Anthony, a sort of provenance stories, and these can be quite touching, too. At first I thought that he just wrote what he imagined happened, but as some of the owners came for their objects and told their stories, I wondered whether he knew something we didn't.

In the end, this is a touching story about how everything has its place. And everyone. It's a story about love, redemption, a story of holding on and letting go, it's about loss and hope. I hope you read it and feel something. Anything, really, because the only things I am sure it won't leave you is indifferent.
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“She cannot bring herself to use the word suicide; the mere thought of it sets her aboil again. Lydia would never do that to her family. To her mother.”


I have wanted to read this for the longest time. I've seen many glowing reviews and seen a multitude of amazing photos of the book on Instagram. Listening to Celeste speak on YouTube was an experience.  But as there are no shops in my country where you can buy books in English (except a selection from Wordsworth Editions and some Penguin Classics / Vintage books) I was stumped. And then I discovered Book Depository. A site with so many books, reasonable prices and free delivery. Of course I took a shot.

The first order of books arrived only 3 weeks after I placed the order. Considering the hole in the ground country I live in, I was impressed with their speed. (They boast an 8-10 work days delivery within Europe, but I knew there was no way that was gonna happen. Southeast Europe might as well be on Mars.) My hands were shaking as I took the books into my hands for the first time, I kid you not. I was beyond excited. I have placed a second, a third and a fourth order since then. The second one has arrived and I'm expecting the others within the next 10 days. I may have become obsessed and have been spending all my money on books. Alas...

“He pushed her in. And then he pulled her out. All her life, Lydia would remember one thing. All his life, Nath would remember another.”

But, now to bring the spotlight onto this particular book. This novel. This goddamn novel. Man, I was so, so impressed. I love stories that deal with family dynamics and histories, as well as those that explore the past decisions and incidents in order to figure out how the hell did we get here? Now, the family saga aspect excludes Russian writers (I could not finish a single Russian classic back in school, I hated how long winded they were and they all sounded pretentious to me. I hated them. Though I was recently thinking of buying the Penguin Russian classics from BD, maybe I will like them more now, having grown up and all.) Anyway, back to Everything. This brilliant book might have hit me in the chest and shouted 'bull's eye' because I have lived through some of it. This to me read as a 'how-not-to-raise-kids' manual. All the mistakes, though some are well-meaning, the parents make when bringing up their children are here. These parents made them, with devastating consequences.

The story follows the Lee family: James and Marilyn, and their three children, Nath, Lydia and Hannah. The family is bi-racial, as James is an American of Chinese descent and Marilyn is the blond, blue-eyed all-American sweetheart. The children, of course, are biracial. And this is 1977, so the family stick out from their surroundings, despite trying to blend into the suburbia. The central even of the story, the one revealed in the very first sentence, is that 15-year-old Lydia is dead; but no one knows this yet. After her body is recovered and buried, the family undergoes a deep transformation. And the reader is brought along as they all explore the past, trying to determine why this happened.

“How good the rain would feel, like crying all over her body.”

I am most fascinated by the parents here. Marilyn in particular. She was different. She wanted to be different. In a time when women's place was thought to be in the kitchen, she wanted to be a doctor. Her mother told her to "find a nice Harvard man" to marry (why waste time studying in college, right?), but she wanted to rise above that. Enter James. He was teaching a seminar on cowboys that Marilyn had sighed up for. After the first class, she went to his office and kissed him. Things snowballed from there.This seems like a nice romantic story, but it is not. See, these two people were fundamentally different. 

“James slid into his seat and the girl next to him asked, “What’s wrong with your eyes?” It wasn’t until he heard the horror in the teacher’s voice—“Shirley Byron!”—that he realized he was supposed to be embarrassed; the next time it happened, he had learned his lesson and turned red right away.”

James, a man of Chinese descent, whose parents came to the US illegally, always tried to blend in. He hated being different, he hated the looks, the whispers, he hated when people asked him about the difference between various food choices in Chinese restaurants, he hated when they pulled the sides of their eyes back to remind him that he, despite having been born on American soil, is not an American. So, he did everything he could to make himself as American as possible. He shunned his parents, he stopped speaking Chinese, he studied (and taught) about cowboys (the most American subject he could think of) and he fell in love with and married the stereotypical American girl.

“In her mind, Marilyn spun out Lydia's future in one long golden thread, the future she was positive her daughter wanted, too.”

Marilyn, the blonde, blue-eyed American girl, always wanted to stand out. She hated being stereotyped, she hated how limited her options were just because she wanted to be more than a housewife. Her assumption was that she was so different in her dreams, as if no other woman at the time wanted more, as if they were all satisfied with their lot, she felt like she was a rebel of some sort. She shunned her mother and went to study medicine. She was going to be a doctor and nobody could tell her otherwise. And at Harvard she met a man who was smart, and elegant, and different than all the man who had courted her back home. He stood out. And so she fell in love with and married a man most people would deny being American.

“Usually her mother gave her books. Books which, although neither of them realized it, her mother secretly wanted herself.”

These two people then had kids: Nath, who looked like his father, and Lydia, who looked like her mother. Both doted on Lydia, of course, the blue-eyed angel. They were living in Middlewood, Ohio, when Marilyn's mother died. After looking at what little remained of her mother, and only taking and old Betty Crocker cookbook to remember her by, she re-examines her life and decides that she still has time to realize her dreams. So, she enrolls in classes at a college in a nearby town and, deciding against giving any explanation, she leaves her family behind. She later returns after she find out that she is pregnant with Hannah, but the summer she was absent defined the rest of all of their lives.

The three children all know their place in the family. 

“How he’d asked for a telescope for his fourteenth birthday and received a clock radio instead; how he’d saved his allowance and bought himself one. How, sometimes, at dinner, Nath never said a word about his day, because their parents never asked.”

Nath is just there. He is brilliant and is guided, and comforted, by his interest in astronauts. He's wanted to be one ever since that summer. His dream is to go MIT or Carnegie Mellon or Caltech - but he also knows that "there was only one place his father would approve: Harvard. To James, anything else was a failing." He longs for freedom, he cannot wait to get away from his family and finally start living his life. 

“And Lydia herself - the reluctant center of their universe - every day, she held the world together. She absorbed her parents' dreams, quieting the reluctance that bubbled within.”

Lydia, the aforementioned family favorite, is actually completely lost. She buckled under the pressure of her parents' dreams, everything she did "seemed such a small thing to trade for their happiness", and she has lost all sense of self. Her mother's bragging about how she was going to be a doctor grated on her nerves, but she bore it because she made a promise that fateful summer. 

“Hannah had been listing Lydia's many nicknames in her mind. Lyd. Lyds. Lyddie. Honey. Sweetheart. Angel. No one ever called Hannah anything but Hannah.”

Hannah is invisible. Even when she was a baby "they set up her nursery in the bedroom in the attic, where things that were not wanted were kept". People often tend to forget about her. She hides in the nooks and crannies of the house and there is an unmistakable air of 'not wanted' around her. The sibling relationships are complicated and messed up as they are all jealous of one another.

In a nutshell, this family is a mess and it all stems from their parents. They were not satisfied with who they were and so, in chasing what they wanted (and they wanted the wrong things) they made so many mistakes, so many missteps. 

I will leave you here and recommend you find out what exactly happened to Lydia, and why, and how everyone contributed to the tragedy that shook this family so deeply.
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“Death is a strange thing. People live their whole lives as if it does not exist, and yet it's often one of the greatest motivations for living.”



Fredrick Backman's book is one I have heard a lot about and one that I saw recommended everywhere. It promised to hit me deep and make me reconsider life and all the grumpy old people I know. Did it accomplish its mission? Well...

The story does somewhat remind me of Pixar's 'Up' - you know, the touching movie about an old man who goes on a quest to accomplish his wife's dream after she dies, while also trying to avoid being sent to an old people's home? Yes, that one, the one I always cry at (that's why it's been a while since I've seen it). 

This novel has a similar premise, Ove's wife, Sonja, died six months ago. He was also forced into retirement because he was no longer needed at a job where younger people proved to be more efficient. He has no friends, no family and he hates his neighbors. Especially the new ones - the ones that ruined his suicide by backing their car into his mailbox. 

And this is where the adventures begin. They include the new neighbors, their daughters, an old friend, an overweight neighbor, a stray cat, a dog that doesn't look like a dog, a blonde bimbo, Saab cars, an iPad, teenage crushes, bikes, a gay kid... We are also brought along on a tip down memory lane, where we learn about how Ove was raised, how he became who he was and about Sonja.

“Ove had never been asked how he lived before he met her. But if anyone had asked him, he would have answered that he didn’t.”

Now, the story is touching, but I felt as if it took way too long t get to the point. I needed an explanation for Ove's behavior earlier, otherwise he's just an old dick. Some of his opinions are very weird and I do not approve. Not everything can be excused by considering his age (he's in his 50s, so it's not as if he was born that long ago.) He shames a neighbor for being fat, frequently noting his appearance, he belittles his career as an tech engineer (he makes apps) as not being a real job, he straight up asks a kid he's met for the first time if he's gay (I don't know which word he used exactly as I read the translation). He also thinks that anyone who doesn't drive a Saab is not normal. Also: “Ove feels an instinctive skepticism towards all people taller than six feet; the blood can’t quite make it all the way up to the brain.”

Now, these could be just his quirks, but there was something about the fact that he was so stuck in his ways that didn't sit well with me. Maybe because I have grown up with a man like him so it chafes. I must say that I am devastated by the tragedy that Ove and Sonja went through, but I am glad that he never became a father. I'm not confident in his ability to be a good one.

“Ove is the sort of man who checks the status of all things by giving them a good kick.” 

I am glad I've read this, but unfortunately, I did not enjoy it too much. I will try watching the movie (I am so unused to using subtitles, I've been watching movies in English without them for so long...) and maybe that will make me reconsider and like the story somewhat more. But for now, I am glad that it's done and over with.
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